Honremos nuestras cicatrices

«También la herida forma parte de la vida y también la cicatriz, pues indican que la herida está curada, aunque el lugar sigue siendo vulnerable, nos advierte de proceder con atención y cautela». Berta Hellinger.

As evidenced in the story of "my house", the process of growth can bring with it different stages and along with them, the making of bad decisions, by taking responsibility for them we see the opportunity to not only be compassionate and empathic with ourselves in moments of error, but to have the certainty of having the solution to repair those situations in which we were wrong.

In many occasions, the solution ends up leaving scars that can remain in the soul, in the mind, in the body and in some cases in all three. We must work on the scars to achieve reconciliation with them, changing their meaning of pain, guilt or regret that can be generated at the moment of seeing and touching them; it can even cause in our lives anguish, pain, bitterness, insecurity, resentment, distrust and much fear; but in the end they will influence us, leading us to the great possibility of a withdrawn, apathetic, depressive in many cases, irascible, blocked, annulled, complexed, etc. people. All this, thanks to the negative power that we give to each one of the scars.